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Hutong days court my desires to live local life

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Why would any visitor to Beijing stay in a hotel when they can stay in a hutong?

I first visited hutong as part of a tourist group several years ago. We rode on a trishaw with a guide explaining the history, architecture and lifestyle of the local inhabitants.

Having visited the fabulous “must-sees” of Beijing, like the Forbidden City, the Temple of Heaven, the Drum Tower and the Summer Palace, going into the hutong home of some famous ancient families gave the “Beijing experience” a human element.

My curiosity has sharpened over the years from reading about them at every opportunity. During the preparation for the Olympics I was thrilled to learn that some siheyuan courtyards in hutong were turned into accommodations for visitors. I vowed to stay in one someday.

Preparing for a recent trip to the capital, I eagerly sought one out. On my humble teacher’s salary, I settled on an affordable option, though I looked longingly at the more upscale courtyard accommodations.

As usual, by not being able to go upmarket, I ended up having something closer to an authentic experience. A real family still dwells in the courtyard, which hasn’t been all tricked out and is closer to the original.

The rooms all opened into the central courtyard. How I love a courtyard! Flowers were blooming, beans and peas were climbing up the bamboo lattice, a wind chime tinkled and the cat was napping in the sun.

Every day after exploring the city, I’d hurry back to the hutong, take a quick shower and join the cat – snoozing in a bamboo lounge chair with a book ready nearby.

As the other guests came back we’d greet one another. There was a mother and young daughter from France, an exuberant guy from Canada, a mother and teenage daughter from the Netherlands, a teacher from England and several guests from various parts of China.

We exchanged stories and tips on where to go and where to eat. Instant friendships were formed. I went to the Summer Palace with James, the Canadian car salesman, and climbed the Great Wall at Simatai with the Hollanders, Lianne and Iris.

Coming and going through the narrow alleys of the hutong, the residents would smile and give cheery “ni hao” (hello). Laughing children were playing under the watchful eyes of the neighbors.

Some recently installed, brightly painted exercise equipment made a perfect perch for the elderly women to sit and chat and comment on the passing scenes. Smells of meals cooking filled my nostrils, as I ducked some laundry hung over the narrow lane. I felt right at home in this friendly neighborhood.

How can a hotel compete? In my opinion, they cannot even come close. Of course, the accommodation seems familiar to foreign visitors because hotels all over the world are the same.

But don’t we travel in order to experience something different?

Sure, they have a restaurant, but then you don’t walk down the street feeling the pulse of the city as you seek out local food. You don’t go traipsing around with people you just met. You don’t go into the kitchen and show your host how you like your eggs prepared.

And you don’t sit in the warm evening, with the flowers, the lazy cat, and have slow, easy conversations with fellow travelers as birds fly overhead, making room for the moon.

Hotel? Hutong? No contest.

Do You Write Journaling?

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Journaling is one of the easiest and most powerful ways to relax and promote oneself.  By getting your thoughts out of your head and writing them down , you’ll get some insights that be helpful for you.

According to my survey, most women do not know what they need. They are busing with taking care of the families without themselves.May be this is the result of the Chinese tradition.

Journaling allows people to clarify their thoughts and feelings, thereby gaining valuable self-knowledge. It’s also a good problem-solving tool; oftentimes, one can hash out a problem and come up with solutions more easily on paper. Journaling about traumatic events helps one process them by fully exploring and releasing the emotions involved, and by engaging both hemispheres of the brain in the process, allowing the experience to become fully integrated in one’s mind.As for the health benefits of journaling, they’ve been scientifically proven.

Once you have completed this stage, give yourself permission to have it, get it or work toward it. Create goals and work toward them.

Have A Green Picnic with Your Families

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It must be a pleasure to have a picnic with families in a holiday. Mum and Dad have both taken some time off to enjoy quality time with each other and the children.It’s time to enjoy an informal meal outdoors, as a family, with space for little ones to scamper about without annoying anyone.

Picnics are eco-friendly naturally because they get you, your pals, and your family out into nature. Certainly, before you have a picnic, you must prepare some tools and food for  your picnic. A reusable picnic basket vs. a bag; reusable dishes; and reusable cloth napkins can all be taken along on a picnic. If you can carry your gear to the site, you can carry it back. Don’t take trash out into the woods.

Some useful info that may help you:

  • Assembling ingredients and preparing the food
  • Beverages
  • Blanket
  • Baskets, bags, shopping cart for transporting the meal
  • Plastic or paper plates, cups, cutlery, etc.
  • Extracurricular activities, dog toys, titles for charades, etc.
  • It’s a good idea to involve the children from the onset and let them help with the planning. This does not have to be complicated but, by giving each one their own task, they will take on some responsibility and will therefore enjoy the day more than simply being “taken” on a picnic.

    Yesterday,Today,Tomorrow

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    Life is fugitive, what we can do is treature what we have.There is a philosophical saying which is:”Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow“.

    Life is an Adventure … Dare it
    Life is a Beauty … Praise it
    Life is a Challenge … Meet it
    Life is a Duty … Perform it
    Life is a Love … Enjoy it
    Life is a Tragedy … Face it
    Life is a Struggle … Fight it
    Life is a Promise … Fulfill it
    Life is a Game … Play it
    Life is a Gift … Accept it
    Life is a Journey … Complete it
    Life is a Mystery … Unfold it
    Life is a Goal … Achieve it
    Life is an Opportunity … Take it
    Life is a Puzzle … Solve it
    Life is a Song … Sing it
    Life is a Sorrow … Overcome it
    Life is a Spirit … Realize it